SEX EDUCATION SINCE EARLY STAGE to CHILDREN

When your kids ask this question,what will you answer? “WHERE IS IM MADE FROM?”WHAT IS SEX MOM?what will you do?

when you know your kids begin ask that question,its mean your kids begin to open her mind to receive information about sex.so,you must answer their question correctly based on their age and mind.otherwise,they will look for the information from wrong sources.we life in the different generation  who can look for any information from the internet.

As parents we must be responsible to transformation and development of our children recently,no exception about sex also.if in the ancient time that is something impolite to discuss its wasn’t  happen in this era.as parents we must teach our children about sex correctly so they can be what we want.now we will discuss about how the way to tell our children  sex education correctly ?

This is the way to give sex Education to our children based on their ages.

• Toddler  (1-5 ages)

in this ages,you can begin to teach your children about sex education.the easy steps is begin from introduce their genital function concisely. Don’t give them the detail definition because their brain cant receive long information yet.

for example,when you take them a bath, you can tell about the various of their body organs, such as hair,head,hand,foot,stomach and don’t forget with their genital as like penis, vagina or vulva.then explain about the differences of their genital from another genital,for example,tell them that they have brother or sister that have different genital.

in other way,tell them that their genital mustn’t showed in carelessly,and if there are someone touch it without known parents,so they must scream loudly,then tell to their parents. therefore,your children can be protected from  many children sexual violence and children sexual harassement case.

• 3-10 ages

In this ages,the children begin to be active to ask about sex.for example,the children will ask where are they made from?or common question such as where is the origin of baby? Simple and clearly answer is effective to given.

example#1:”where is baby made from?” you can answer “from mother’s stomach” or you can show a pregnant woman then appoint to her stomach where the baby stayed.

example #2:”how the way baby exit from mother’s stomach?” you can answer the baby out from  vagina’s hole or vulva.

example #3"how can the baby in the mom’s stomach?" you can answer that  the baby in the mom’s stomach because there is a seed given by father.the way is your dad take the seed use his penis through mother’s vagina,that called sex ritualism, and it should only be done by a couple who already married.     

• preteen

the children developt day by day,and its time to explain about menstruation,wet dreams and body’s changing that will be happen later.you can explain that the little girl will have different form of her breast and about growing fur around of their genital and other places.

• teenanger

in this ages,the teenanger will get many transformation in the sexuality.you must be more intensive to teach them about sex education.explain them about good moral,the disanvantages of free sex,the kinds of sex ill,and the effect of sex before married to their psychology.

Depend of research,the earlier sex education will avoid pregnant without married when the children grow up become teenager and adult later.dont be shy to discuss it because your children need to get correct information about sex from their parents,not from the other source.

The big children desire to know about sex become the reason we must give them earlier sex education,otherwise they will get the information from another sources which make misunderstanding about it.that’s why we must protect our children from now by give them sex education correctly.

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